you can offload your mayMap kml file by adding &output=kml to the http call on the page that shows your map.
I used this sample file I found on the google map forum. And used it as a template for the asian_overlay kml file.
I edited and reset the namespace and the tags from my My Maps kml .. and added folders too cuz I thought it made the map more comprehensible. I used a standard text editor to add the elements.
old namespace:
<xmlns="http://earth.google.com/kml/2.0">
new namespace:
<kml xmlns="http://www.opengis.net/kml/2.2">
and I threw in an atom tag for good measure:
<atom:author>
<atom:name>myName</atom:name>
<atom:author>
< atom:link href="http://www.mysite.org" >
In the screen overlay entry I pointed to a png file I wanted to use.
<Folder>
<name>ScreenOverlays</name>
<open>0</open>
<ScreenOverlay>
<name>screenoverlay_absolute_bottomright</name>
<visibility>0</visibility>
<Icon>
<href>http://sites.google.com/site/mapsofoldsanantonio/files/nowcast_2010_logo.png</href>
</Icon>
<overlayXY x="0" y="-1" xunits="fraction" yunits="fraction"/>
<screenXY x="0" y="0" xunits="fraction" yunits="fraction"/>
<rotationXY x="0" y="0" xunits="fraction" yunits="fraction"/>
<size x="0" y="0" xunits="fraction" yunits="fraction"/>
</ScreenOverlay>
</Folder>
Once the files were uploaded to mysite. I created a url based on the template:
http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&hl=en&q=http%3A%2F%2Fsites.google.com%2Fsite%2Fmapsofoldsanantonio%2F%2Ffiles%2Fasian_overlay.kml&ie=UTF8&ll=29.4916,-98.5011&sspn=29.5301,29.4027,-98.3586,-98.6563&z=10&om=1
where the sspan parameters are in the following order:
newGLatLng(map.getBounds().getNorthEast().lat() − map.getBounds().getSouthWest().lat(),map.getBounds().getNorthEast().lng() − map.getBounds().getSouthWest().lng()).toUrlValue()
the %2F is actually an escape code for a / .. so this would be the html path to your new and shiny kml file. From here you can grab a link or the embed code and you are off to the races.
Some elements may need tweaking: the ll and spn elements may need tweaking on your embed to center on the elements you wish to capture on the map.